Choosing a wedding DJ is one of the decisions that most shapes how your reception feels. In San Diego you will find everything from part-time hobbyists to full-time companies, so the questions you ask matter more than the photos on a website. Here are ten to ask before you sign.
1. Will the DJ I meet be the DJ at my wedding?
Some companies assign someone at the last minute, so ask for it in writing. At MY DJs, the DJ you choose after your initial interview is the DJ for your wedding day.
2. Can I see them work before I book?
A demo video helps, and a live demonstration is better. If you cannot meet in person, a video chat interview is a good substitute.
3. Do they also act as your MC?
The announcements, introductions and flow between toasts, dances and dinner are as important as the music. Ask who runs the timeline and how they coordinate with your planner, photographer and venue.
4. How do you handle requests and do-not-play songs?
A good DJ takes requests that fit the moment and never plays anything on your do-not-play list. Ask how you submit song lists ahead of time. MY DJs uses an online planning system where you choose must-play and never-play songs; 10 to 15 songs across genres is enough to give your DJ direction.
5. What backup equipment do you bring?
Equipment fails. Ask about backup sound, backup microphones and what happens if a DJ is sick.
6. What is included in the price?
Compare hours, ceremony coverage, wireless microphones, dance floor lighting and uplights. In San Diego, professional DJs commonly price between $1,100 and $2,500; MY DJs wedding packages start at $1,295 for four hours.
7. Is the DJ experienced with your culture and music?
If you are planning a multicultural or fusion wedding, ask for examples. Music from several traditions needs a DJ who knows how to blend them smoothly.
8. Do you know my venue?
Sound limits, load-in rules and power access differ across San Diego venues. A DJ who has worked your venue will already know them.
9. What are the booking terms?
Expect a signed contract and a deposit. At MY DJs, a signed contract and a 25 percent deposit are required at booking, and payments and e-signatures are handled online.
10. Is tipping expected?
Gratuity is usually not included in the contract. 10 to 20 percent is generally recommended for great service, but it is up to you.
Frequently asked questions
How far in advance should I book? 6 to 12 months ahead for popular dates.
What does a wedding DJ cost in San Diego? Typically $1,100 to $2,500; see our San Diego wedding DJ price guide and wedding packages.
Ready to check your date? Send us your date and venue and we will confirm availability by email.











